Showing posts with label Lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lifestyle. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Why do people cry even though they are happy





"Tears flow when people are overwhelmed with strong positive emotions and people who do this seem to recover better from those strong emotions," said psychologist Oriana Aragon at the Yale University in the US.

People overcome strong positive emotions with tears of joy, says a study, adding that crying actually helps them recover from the situation.

Aragon and her colleagues at Yale ran participants through some emotional scenarios such as cute babies or a crying spouse who is reunited with her soldier husband returning from war, and measured their responses.

"People restore emotional equilibrium with these expressions," she added.

They found that individuals who express negative reactions to positive news were able to moderate intense emotions more quickly.

They also found people, who are most likely to cry at their child's graduation are most likely to want to pinch a cute baby's cheeks.

There is also some evidence that strong negative feelings may provoke positive expressions.

For example, nervous laughter appears when people are confronted with a difficult or frightening situations, and we also smile during extreme sadness.

"The new discoveries begin to explain common things that many people do but do not even understand themselves," Aragon said.

"These insights advance our understanding of how people express and control their emotions, which is importantly related to mental and physical health, the quality of relationships with others, and even how well people work together," she concluded.

The paper was published in the journal Psychological Science.

Monday, August 18, 2014

Women always fake this while texting

Women fake orgasm while 'sexting' (view pics)Do you exchange sexually explicit message with the opposite sex either to get into the mood or fulfill your partner's fantasies? You may be faking orgasm “non-physically”.

According to an interesting research, lying while sexting was found more common among women - at 45 percent - compared with 24 percent among men.

“Most people lie while 'sexting' because they want to please their partner,” said Michelle Drouin, an associate professor at Indiana University.

The participants listed several reasons for lying, including wanting to make a partner happy or fulfill a partner's fantasy.

Some said they lied to avoid upsetting their partners.

During the study, researchers examined the prevalence of “sexting” among 155 college students - 62 men and 93 women.

 



They found that some of them who reported having lied while “sexting” did so to “get in the mood”.

Other said they wanted to see how their partners would react to their "fake" texts.

But some people lied because they were bored or there were other people around while they were “sexting”, the study noted.

“In relation to other types of sexual deception, the overall incidence of lying during 'sexting' is slightly lower than pretending orgasm in a face-to-face context,” Drouin wrote.

Lying while “sexting” can harm relationships, researchers warned.

The findings appeared in the journal Computers in Human Behavior